You can’t watch as they smile, and that smile spreads up into their eyes and transforms their face into one of the most beautiful things you’ve ever seen – a thing that warms your heart and makes you realize you want to spend more time with the person. Unfortunately, the reality is nowhere near that fantasy.To get some insight into what women go through on these dating websites, I pulled aside one of my family members who I knew had spent some time on these sites looking for her future spouse. Actually, now that I think about it, that was how most of the messages I got started.Also, some of the messages I got were from a few guys that ranged from early 40’s to late 40’s and I was maybe 19 at the time.That was one of the main reasons I called it quits.Are you cool with your boyfriend calling another girl hot or not? Read what these ladies think and then tell us your opinion. He says he loves me, but I’m kind of starting to not believe him. Personally, I think there is so much more to be gained from talking with someone face to face – you are able to read their body language and listen to intonation in their voice, which are much better indicators than online messages or profiles. RD: If there are guys looking to actually get the attention of a girl on these dating sites, do you have any advice for them? AW: We lived across the hall from each other our first year of university.We became good friends first and we only started dating 2 years later.
To explore this topic, I pulled aside two individuals who I knew were hunting for a long-term relationship using online dating websites, and asked them about their experiences with the services.
As much as a girl would love for her boyfriend to have eyes only for her, the reality is that no matter how devoted your man is, he still checks out other girls. There’s no harm in looking, as long as nothing else is happening. He’s in a relationship with YOU, not the girls he sees or remembers. Of course he’s young though, and most guys today believe the whole “look but don’t touch” saying, which is pathetic. But don’t get really jealous over him thinking another girl is pretty. Do you care if your sweetie calls other people hot?
It doesn’t matter if he says he doesn’t, or if he acts like he doesn’t notice that other women are pretty. But does that mean it’s okay for your boyfriend to voice his opinion out loud on that hot girl that just walked by? He’s trying to give himself an excuse to say, “I’m a guy, it’s normal”. To get back at him, you should do some of the things he does and make some of the same comments. He loves you and he’s with you, and if he didn’t want to be, he wouldn’t be.
Just because he might see a really attractive girl, does that mean he has to actually tell you about it? Sure, it may be normal for him to look, but he should have respect for you to keep it to himself. He’s still immature, but moreover he’s just being a typical guy. Think about the last time you thought another dude was hot.
We found this topic being discussed in the message boards, and we’re curious as to what you girls think.