Bobbi had a farm with geese in the yard and instead of using The Horse Whisperer, which was way too overdone, we changed one word to great effect. It’s in Volume 2 of my Finding the One Online audio series, and is the cherry on top of your new online dating experience.
In Finding the One Online, I give you 7 hours of audio, a 180 page transcript, a 35 page workbook – and tips on everything from choosing the right site, to writing a compelling online dating profile, to taking the right photos, to flirting effectively via email so that every single person will want to meet you in person. What’s the most memorable username you’ve ever seen on a dating site?
I started experimenting with each part of my online dating, starting with my username, my photos, profile and last the emails. It’s just common sense when you think about it, I mean…
If you email her, she’ll first see your username, photo and subject line of your email. What girl in her right mind would want to date a guy with a username like this: Note: Bad usernames are typical.
You want everything matching, looking good & working together.
This synergy has made my dating life crazy awesome. To go from not being able to get a date, to being able to attempt 150 Dates in 1 Year is a big difference. So that’s where we’ll start and why I created The Complete Online Dating Username Guide: A Step By Step Guide For Creating Your Own Irresistible Username. Girls take about 3 seconds to decide to check you out or to move on to the next guy. Here is an example of what a girl sees when she’s searching – The username is right at the top. You didn’t put much thought into your username — but it’s your first impression, so don’t sabotage your online dating with a bla username!
You can also start a contest to get username ideas from other people.
As someone who has been an online dating coach since 2003, I’d venture to guess that I’ve not only seen more usernames than just about anyone on the planet, but I’ve written more of them as well.
(She shakes her head and rolls her eyes in disappointment) I wouldn’t even look at his profile.