On the surface, these two issues arise because he’s a doctor and possibly has long working hours.But I cannot understand how he can’t find five minutes in his day to text me … And why is his schedule so disorganized that he cannot tell if/when he’ll have an evening off?I’ve asked repeatedly if there is a way we can work around his schedule to see each other.But he has point-blank refused, he just says he can’t give me any times as he apparently doesn’t know when he’ll have time off.About a month ago I asked him if we could ever be more than friends and he said he’s not going to answer that. He’s played the entire thing out in his head and all he can see is Doom and Gloom! A few years ago I was in a similar boat as you are today. By asking him to be more than friends, you ask him for a greater commitment.
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I’m a funny guy, fairly wise, very goal oriented, and I’m very social.
But the bottom line is, I’m just not very good with “relationships” or dating in general.
Love is a beautiful thing and I understand that you don’t want to throw it away. Shift a few expectations, create a few boundaries and you can continue to fall in love with this man AND let him be who he needs to be at this time. In time, a week, a month, a year, he might find he DOES a lot to give to someone and that someone might be you. Click to Tweet: What to do when you’re in love with an unavailable man.
(Click HERE to learn what you can say to pave the way in case he does change his mind! And if you want MORE awesome advice on love, sex, dating and relationships, sign up below for FREE email updates and a FREE copy of my awesome Ebook “Mars Venus Dating.” Xo! What’s bothering me now is that he’s been acting differently towards me ever since.